• Ask Bareback Michael Your Sex Questions

    By: Michael

    Hi studs and twinks, bears and boys! It's time to get down and dirty! While at Bareback we have been engaging in hot, raw man-to-man sex for years, we know that not all of you are quite as experienced. Some may have been having gay sex for years, but never barebacked. Some may have tried pussy for a while but are now ready for hot cock. Others may be total virgins who want to learn the ropes! We understand and we want to be here to help! That is why starting this week we are going to respond to all of your hot questions. We want to make you the experts of raw man-to-man love! Are you ready, then unzip and get ready for us to train you. You dirty motherfuckers!

    Bareback Michael

    To ask your own question: send an e-mail to Michael@bareback.com

  • What is douching?

    By: Michael

    Question:

    How do I put this delicately? I am in my first gay relationship and so far we have stuck to cocksucking. But, I really want to get my cheery popped. When I told my boyfriend this, he said I should douche first. What the fuck is that all about? I thought only chicks douched? Please help!

    Douchebag in Detroit

    Answer:

    Dear Douchebag,

    Good question. First off, you douche your ass and not your pussy! Secondly, douching your ass is not an option, it is a must. Face it, you are a man. That means you are literally full of shit most of the time. Would you stick your dick in a bucket of shit? I thought not, so why would you ask your man to do that! You've got to clean your hole before you get plowed.

    At Bareback we have a very extensive guide to anal douching that you can check if you need more information. Right now, let me just give you the basics.
    You need some system to shoot water up your ass. Most people will hook up a hose and nozzle to the shower or sink, and let the warm water flow. They then will shit and repeat the process. Other people buy enema kits from their drugstore.

    No matter which option you choose, you will soon have a clean ass that won't paint your top brown.


    Get ready to get laid!

    Hugs,

    Bareback Michael

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  • Virgin Barebacking

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I am very interested in trying barebacking, but I am a virgin barebacker (I have gotten fucked safely before). How can I bring this up with potential partners and what should I expect.

    Thanks,

    Need Skin To Skin

    Answer:

    Dear Skin Boy,

    So, you want to bareback? Good for you. You have certainly come to the right place. Be warned however to be careful when expressing your desires. There are a lot of Bareback Nazis out there who will give you a serious about of shit about your decision. Be strong, ignore them and get the cock you need!

    As with all things involving sex, honesty is the first step. But, in this case you also want to be safe - not sexually, but you don't want an asshole to beat you up. So, your first stop should be with Bareback.com. Almost all our guys embrace the barebacking culture. If they don't, we kick them off the site, it's that simple. Then, be very clear before you meet up about what you expect. If you want bareback sex, tell them. If they balk, tell them to fuck off!

    As to what to expect - expect the hottest sex you have ever had. People were meant to fuck bare. You will feel things you have never felt before, no matter if you are a top or bottom. You may feel true intimacy for the first time ever! Get ready to rumble, piggy! It's going to be a fun ride!


    Hugs,

    Bareback Michael

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  • All about Lube

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    My new boyfriend tried to take my bareback cherry last weekend. Suffice to say, things did not go as planned. I am used to having condoms pave the way so to speak and I was just too fucking tight to take him! I think we need to use a lube, but am unsure what to use. There seems to be a lot of conflicting information out there. Thanks!

    Slip Slip Sliding Away

    Answer:

    Dear Slip Sliding Away,

    It's true there is a lot of conflicting information out there. The reason is that most of the advice is written for pussies. They assume that you are a breeder and that you use condoms. If you are gay and going bareback all the rules go out the door!

    Most people advise using a water-based lubricant like AstroGlide. The only reason for that is that alcohol bases lubes can cause condoms to degrade. That is not really an issue for most Bareback.com members!

    As a natural barebacker you can use just about anything you want other than chilli oil - unless you want a serious pain in the ass. Vaseline works well and so does cold cream. You can of course use desensitizing lubes if your ass is really tight! Almost any sex shop will have a good selection - but why not be creative! Conditioner is good. Shampoo sucks - in can irritate anal nerve endings. My personal favorite is Eros. It is a bit expensive but works wonders.


    Hope that helps you get fucked!

    Hugs,

    Bareback Michael

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  • Is Bareback Safe?

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I find the idea of barebacking fascinating, but am a little bit concerned. There is so much safe sex peer pressure and information out there. Is barebacking really that much better than safe sex? How risky is it really? Is there any way to make it less risky?

    Horny But Scared

    Answer:

    Dear But Scared,

    First off, face it, no sex act is completely safe. Condoms break, people get caught up in the moment. Shit happens. So you need to get over this idea of safe sex. Plus, while breeders always preach save sex, they seem to have a lot of babies and abortions which means they don't always practice what they preach.

    Yes, barebacking feels much better. It is the most intimate act of love that can exist between two men. And, despite what Bareback Nazis say there are ways to make it safer without wrapping your crank in latex. For example:

    You and your boyfriend could both be tested and then you could trust each other to be faithful.

    You could use a good lube, which will reduce the chances of the bleeding that can lead to HIV transmission.

    You could be a big boy and pull out and shoot on his back.

    You can limit your activities to other HIV negative men.

    There are other people who address this differently. They argue that most gay men will be exposed to the HIV virus eventually, so they might as well get it over with. These chasers seek out virile Positive men to seed them.


    Hugs,

    Bareback Michael

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  • Trouble Swapping Loads

    By: Michael

    Question:

    I love the thought of swapping loads with my buddies. My problem is that I am unable to shoot while my dick is in his ass. I only seem to be able to get off if I'm jerking myself. How can I learn to get off while I'm fucking and give my bud the load he wants?

    Thanks,

    Frustrated Fucker

    Answer:

    Dear Frustrated Fucker,

    Wow! I have the opposite problem. One of my greatest joys is shooting up someone's ass. The feel of my jizz oozing in someone's ass not only gets me off literally, but also gets me off for hours later. :)

    I will say I also enjoy jacking off as well. I have friends that I fuck on a regular basis that only get off jacking themselves off. One thing I might suggest to you is to fuck the shit out of someone till you are tired or they can't take much more. Then, lay back; stroke that meat till you are close. When you get that sinking feeling that you are about to shoot, shove that puppy back inside and let it rip. After a few times, you may get to the point where that is your preference!


    Sincerely,

    Bareback Michael

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  • Worried about HIV

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Michael,

    I have a friend that I'm really attracted to. We hang out sometimes and we get along well. I wouldn't mind getting into a relationship with him, but there's one thing. He's HIV positive. Now I like to bareback and if I bareback with him, I'm afraid of getting HIV. What should I do?

    Looking!

    Answer:

    Dear Mr. Right,

    I would suggest that you not discount someone because they are HIV+. I am 45 and I am negative. I have been in relationships with guys who were positive. For me, there are just some things that I do with them and some things that I don't. I prefer to know if someone is positive or negative before getting involved. Each person has his own limits in a relationship. For me, I am mostly a top and I love fucking a raw ass bottom and dropping a load in. I have no problem with my bottom being negative or positive. That is where I am at this point in my life and what I am comfortable with. That does not mean that I am not taking any risks. I realize with every fuck there is a risk. I believe someone that is educated and knowledgeable can make up their own mind as to what they want to do with the other person.


    Regards,

    Bareback Michael

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  • I'm A Virgin

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    Dear Bareback Michael: I'm not only a virgin to barebacking but also a virgin in general. My question to you is: what does it feel like when a guy shoots his cum in your ass?

    Thanks,

    Needs a Load

    Answer:

    Dear Needs a Load,

    So, you want to bareback? Good for you. You have certainly come to the right place. Be warned however to be careful when expressing your desires. There are a lot of Bareback Nazis out there who will give you a serious about of shit about your decision. Be strong, ignore them and get the cock you need!


    Hugs,

    Bareback Michael

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  • Frozen Cum

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Michael,

    I am new at barebacking, I'm a negative bottom but found a really hot top poz guy. We agreed that he would fuck me with a condom, and after he cums, freeze the cum and later inject it into my ass to use as lube. How safe is this. I don't want to convert, but really get off on this guys cum in my ass. Any advice.

    Also, how risky is it for him to put his cock in my ass bareback and drop a load of piss in me?? Would the piss disinfect my ass and take care of any potential risk for infection?

    Also, what is pnp??

    Curious Cumsickle

    Answer:

    Dear C.C.,

    So, you want to bareback? Good for you. You have certainly come to the right place. Be warned however to be careful when expressing your desires. There are a lot of Bareback Nazis out there who will give you a serious about of shit about your decision. Be strong, ignore them and get the cock you need!

    1. You are just fucking with me and wasting my precious time.

    2. You are a 15-year-old boy fucking with me and wasting my precious time and should therefore get off the fucking site and visit Dr. Drew or something.

    3. You are the dumbest asshole ever to enter the gay community.

    That said, I'm going to go where no other advice columnist would ever go before on the assumption that there are not stupid questions, just dumb motherfuckers.

    Let's start with the first part of this carnival of insanity. Why the fuck do you think freezing his sperm would lessen your likelihood of HIV transmission? Do you know what scientists do when they want to save viruses in a laboratory so they can use them later? They fucking freeze them!! Beyond that, why the hell do you want frozen sperm injected into your ass? You are not a dyke looking to get pregnant, are you?? Look, if you want to feel your boyfriend's cum in your ass it is going to feel a lot nicer getting it from the source while he is fucking you. No ifs, ands or gay butts. If you want to have safe sex don't let him cum in your ass. If you want him to cum in your ass be a big boy and get the picture that its not safe sex. There is no law saying you have to practice safe sex. It's your body. Do whatever the fuck you want with it. Barebacking is very fun and if you want to do it, just do it. Just please don't act like a 15 year old girl who is convinced she can't get pregnant because it is her first time. A load is a load is a load and Bareback Michael would much rather have a hot load then some frozen Frankenload.

    As to the second part of this advice question. Piss is sterile. But that does not mean it sterilizes anything. Any bodily fluid can transmit sexually transmitted diseases. That includes cum, piss, shit, puke and blood. Look, it's pretty obvious you are going to let this dude convert you. Come out of the bareback closet. Either do it or don't, but don't try justifying it as safe sex. You just end up sounding like a pussy.

    As to the last part of your letter. Finally, a reasonable fucking question. PNP stands for Party and Play. It refers to having gay sex while drunk or high. Often in a bar a guy will ask you if you PNP. What he means is, "do you want to get fucked up and fuck?"

    Since you are clearly fucked up to begin with, you might want to avoid this until you have come to some terms with reality while sober.


    Much love,

    Bareback Michael

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  • What is a Bug Chaser?

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I am new to the site and keep reading references to Bug Chaser Letters. What are they? How do I write one? Do I want to write one?

    Virgin Writer

    Answer:

    Dear Virgin,

    Are you a bug chaser? Do you even know what the bug is? When studs on our site talk about the Bug, they are referring to the HIV virus. Some bareback members do everything they can to avoid the big bad bug. Others have chosen to embrace it. They understand that once they have it, they never need to worry about condoms again. This is a personal choice.

    A bug chaser is someone who does not have the bug, but it looking for it. They find HIV positive men extremely sexually attractive. Yet, you don't want to just go into a bar and ask random hunks if they are infected. You might get the shit kicked out of you.

    Therefore a Bug Chaser letter is a letter you can send to men at Bareback asking them if they will give you the bug. Some tops love giving the bug. They are called Gift Givers, because they love giving you the special present in their dirty load.

    The only guidelines to writing a letter are to be honest, say what you want and don't chicken out at the last minute. If you chase something, eventually you will catch it!




    Dear Bareback Michael,

    What is a Bug Party? How do I get invited? Are they exclusive? Do I want to be invited? What's the 411!

    Thanks

    Sorry To Bug You!

    Answer:

    Dear STBY, you are not bugging me! I have been involved in the bareback community for so long, sometimes I forget that newbies don't always know all the terms that we use on a regular basis. The Bug is the HIV virus. A Bug Party then is a group of people who come together for group sex and don't give a flying fuck if the Bug is lurking around the beautiful man fluids or not!

    Some bug parties are exclusive events. Most, however, are open to anyone in the community who is cool and won't act like an AIDS Nazi! Bug Parties are rarely free. A fellow stud is opening up h is hotel room or renting a room to help you get laid. Therefore many will ask for "contributions" of about $25 to pay for the experience. On the other hand you will get laid, so it's generally worth it.

    You can find out about local Bug Parties by visiting our site and looking at the bulletin boards. They are held around the country so it should not be hard to find one near you and get into a hot male orgy!


    Bareback Michael

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  • Organisms in Waves

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I love this sexual act way too much as of late and I'm curious as to why? I get organisms but they are like inside me and come in the most intense waves that it is hard to explain. I have some experience with men but this is off the scale so can you tell me why? Not complaining!

    Thanks. Wavy Davy

    Answer:

    Dear Wavy Davy,

    I think it is awesome that you are getting these wave like orgasms inside of you. Perhaps it is just such a fucking amazing feeling that you not only explode on the outside, but on the inside as well. When I am about to shoot my raw load inside some guy's hot ass, I get an intense feeling inside and out. I just love hot raw bareback intense action. To me, that is the ultimate high.

    Don't question why as much and just let it happen. Have fun and surf those waves as often as you can!


    Hugs,

    Bareback Michael

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  • I want to be a Porn Star!

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I have been told by my friends and fuck buddies that I should be a Porn Star. They tell me that I have the body for one and defiantly the sexual appetite and abilities to transform a great Porn scene into a truly sexually arousing cum-orgasmic experience.

    Do you have any agents or studio referrals that I can contact for a personal review and hopefully a screen test? I really want to get into the bareback video movie business!

    Perky Porn Star Wanna Be

    Answer:

    Dear Jeff Palmer Want to Be:

    Well, my first suggestion would be to let me meet you and do a screen test. :) I have a pretty good eye and as someone is lying on the floor getting pounded, I have an innate ability to determine how many porn videos they will sell. :)

    Other than that, I would suggest you try the following sites and contact them for modeling:

    www.hotdesertknights.com
    www.treasureislandmedia.com

    Best of luck in your porn dreams! Send me a signed first copy.


    Bareback Michael

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  • What does In and Out Mean?

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    For escorting, what does "in" and "out" mean?

    Curious Guy

    Answer:

    Dear Curious Guy,

    Well, I often think of In and Out as I am fucking some hot ass. But, when those terms are used with escorting, it refers to in calls and outcalls. In calls means the escort will see clients in his apartment or home. Outcalls mean that the escort will only go out to meet clients.

    Personally, when fucking someone, I like to use my own place. But, a roll in the hay with a hot escort at his apartment is often hot as well.

    I hope this helps!


    Bareback Michael

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  • Is Aids Real?

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    Why the fuck do you keep mentioning AIDS and HIV when the HIV hypothesis has been so thoroughly discredited? Take a look at these sites, asshole!
    www.aliveandwell.org
    www.actupsf.com
    www.virusmyth.com
    www.healsd.org

    The fucking "AIDS crisis" is over!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get fucking real! Stop the myth!

    Truth Teller

    Answer:

    Dear Truth Teller,

    Get a fucking life. HIV doesn't cause AIDS. Yeah, right. And the holocaust didn't happen. And the earth is flat. And one day I'll wake up a straight man in bed with Britney Fucking Spears.

    Liar, liar, pants on fire.

    It's complete fucking ignorance like this that gives the gay and barebacking communities a bad name. You can't fucking argue with science. Take a look at Africa. Do you really think that millions of people have just started dying because they believe in some western medical myth? It's all a bunch of bullshit.

    Look, I'm all in favor of guys doing and saying whatever they have to get laid. If it helps you get ass to tell guys that AIDS does not exist then by all means tell your victims that. But you know what, Bareback Michael isn't ever going to swallow you line of bullshit. I might swallow you, but not if you try to pull a low rent paranoid con job on me. So fuck off.

    The Internet is full of a lot of lies, half truths and misinformation. Don't believe everything you read - even if you hear it from me. Check your fucking sources and get real.

    As to the AIDS crisis being over, there is some truth to that in wealthy western societies. Here in America you can take your medication and generally live with HIV as a manageable disease for years. You won't get cured, but this is not the mid 80s when HIV was an absolute death sentence either.

    At the end of the day you owe it to yourself to make your sexual choices based on the best information possible. It's perfectly fine to decide to bareback. Just make sure that when you make that choice you are doing so for good reasons and not because you are a fucking idiot.


    Bareback Michael

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  • Watching Bareback Sex

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I have enjoyed watching other guys bareback my boyfriend for about three years. About a year ago, the idea of charging his hole became super erotic. He has been POZ for about 5 months now and I have continued to enjoy having other guys breed him. I am intent on getting him super-charged with 100+ loads before the end of the year. Lately I have heard some talk that there is no validity to the notion of re-infection with different strains. What is your feeling about this? If true, it sort of steals the eroticism from the quest for me.

    The Watcher

    Answer:

    Dear Watcher,

    Wait. Hold on. Stop the clock. You and your boyfriend are both POZ. When you started dating he was neg and you were POZ. During that time you have watched other guys bareback your sweetheart to the point of making him POZ too. Yet, you have never actually barebacked him yourself yet?

    What the fuck is wrong with you!! He's your boyfriend! He's your bottom. He's your property. If you want to lend him out to random guys that is your right, but not before you mark your territory first. If you want him POZ and he wants to be POZ it is your fucking responsibility to make him POZ.

    Yes there are different strains and it's possible to reinfect guys. As to whether you can reinfect him or not, you will never know. He may already have the same strain you do. And you know what? You can't just take him to a doctor's office to compare strains. Doctors look at that shit the same way they look at smoking, heavy drinking and playing with matches near oxygen tents.

    But, that's all beside the point. If this guy wants to be barebacked and there are guys who will bareback him, but his boyfriend won't guess what, he's going to leave you for a real man who will bareback him.

    You want some good advice? Stop reading now and go fucking bareback your boyfriend. If you want him to stay give him your spray! Get off the Internet and fuck the living shit out of him. In the words of Nike - Just Do It!


    Bareback Michael

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  • Keeping an Erection

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I'm a 44 year old guy here and I love the barebacking scene but I am finding more often then not it's hard to keep hard. I've been checked out medically and everything's cool and I can be jerked off or do myself but when with another guy it's hard to keep hard. Any ideas?

    Limp Biscuit

    Answer:

    Dear Limp Biscuit,

    You can't get hard with a guy? Maybe you aren't gay. Have you tried fucking a girl? Just kidding. Assuming that you know you want to fuck a guy but just can't insert slot A into Tab B there are a bunch of possible shit that could be going on here.

    First off, as we get older the amount of testosterone (our man juice) starts to drop. You can still be medically OK, but you won't be able to fuck like a teenager. If that's the case just ask your doctor for some Viagra. Bareback Michael tried it a couple weeks ago and was able to fuck nine times in one night. Not too fucking shabby.

    You also could be nervous or guilty. Do you have some issues about your queerness? If that's the case you may just need to get more comfortable with yourself and find a partner who will make you feel relaxed and comfortable and let you get your wood at your own pace. It's fucking. It's not a race or a contest.

    Are you on any anti depressants? Some anti depressants like Lexapro can make it difficult to get or maintain an erection. If you are on any joy pills try going off them for a few weeks and see what happens. If you see a dramatic difference talk to you doctor about changing your meds.

    Perhaps you like to bareback but the AIDS Nazis have made you feel guilty about your desires. If so, get over it! You deserve the best sex a man can get.

    Write me back and let me know what happens. I like to know that all my little piggies are getting as dirty as they can possibly get!


    Hugs,

    Bareback Michael

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  • STD's and Bareback Sex

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I'm a bareback virgin, and I want to go have myself some fun. The problem is, I'm worried about getting an STD. I don't want to get infected with anything that won't go away and I end up having to deal with for the rest of my life. It's an extra burden I neither want nor need. So, can you shoot me some tips on how to have my cum and eat it too? (I.e. how can I make sure that the risk is reduced, and make sure guys I might meet through this site are telling the truth?)

    Thanks,

    Unpopped Cherry

    Answer:

    Dear Unpopped Cherry,

    How can you make sure guys you meet through this site are telling the truth?? Are you a man or not? If you are a man you know that there are men out there who will say anything to get laid. They will lie, cheat and steal in order to get some hot ass. This is true for both the gay and straight communities. Do you have any idea how many girls have gotten pregnant because their boyfriends promised them they would marry them "if anything happens?" Do you know how many boyfriends actually stayed around after breeding the bitches? Not fucking many.

    Claiming that you are neg when you are really POZ is the same fucking deal. If a POZ guy wants to fuck the shit out of you and thinks you will only let him do it if he tells you he is neg there are a lot of POZ guys who will straight out lie to you.

    I am glad that you ask how to reduce the risk and not how to eliminate the risk. I get a lot of fucking questions here asking me if something is or is not safe sex. No sex is safe. Condoms break, some people pull condoms off without telling you, people can fake health reports and shit just generally happens.

    There are some ways to reduce the risk, but whenever you have sex, with condoms or bareback, you might eventually get sick. But guess what, if you never have sex you will still eventually get sick and die. No one fucking lives forever. Just some food for thought.

    There are several ways to reduce the risk. None of them are that much fun, but you asked. You can ask the guy to pull out so that you only get his precum and not a full load. You can have sex with a steady boyfriend in a monogamous relationship and both get yourself tested. Obviously, though if he cheats on you with a POZ guy you are screwed. You can stick to oral sex, which has a much lower rate of HIV transmission. Or you can stick to mutual masturbation.

    Being a virgin is no fun and I wish I could tell you that there was one sure fire way to prevent the transmission of AIDS. But, if I did that I'd be lying. I'm not a liar.


    Sorry,

    Bareback Michael

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  • From Bottom to Top

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I am primarily a bottom (Bareback ONLY!), always will be, but lately I have been getting hornier and hornier thinking about fucking a guy in the ass and shooting my load, for a change, but I am afraid I won't be able to perform, and I am not sure how to find a guy that will let me try.

    Bottoms Up

    Answer:

    Dear Bottoms Up,

    Do you want the short answer or the long answer stud? Here's the short answer. Find a guy who really wants to fuck your ass bareback. Then tell him he can but only if he lets you try to fuck his ass first. If he really wants you he'll cave. Plus, if you can't perform, he won't give a flying fuck because he'll know that he is about to get to fuck your ass. He wins either way and you get to try out your hydraulic system.

    As to the meat of you question. If you get horny thinking about fucking a guy up the ass why won't you be able to perform? Isn't the definition of being able to perform getting hard over doing something? Try it. If your dick don't crank maybe that means that you don't want to do it badly enough. Keep trying and if you really want to fuck a guy eventually your cock will rock.

    This is sex, not rocket science. Lighten up a little bit and your cock will rock till you drop.


    Bareback Michael

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  • Drinking Piss

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I was at a club a couple of months ago and finally decided to get the balls to get in the piss tub. I had always wanted to do this, but never had the guts. Well needless to say, I loved it. I probably got pissed on by about at least 30 guys, but probably more. When I left, I had serious itching all over. After I showered the next day, I was fine. I returned to the club the next night and did this again. This time there was no itching.

    What might have caused the itching? Is there anything unsafe about getting pissed on? What about drinking piss? I have seen this and am turned on by it, and might try it the next time I am there.

    Thanks,

    Pisshead

    Answer:

    Dear Pisshead,

    You got pissed on by 30 random guys and you wonder why the fuck your skin itched until you showered? Are you for real? Do you understand why people piss in the first place?

    People take a leak in order to eliminate waste products from our system. That means that anything you eat or drink can end up in your dream stream. Urine itself is sterile but the other ingredients may not be. If you drink a lot of booze, there is going to be booze in your piss. If you eat a lot of Indian food there is going to be spicy shit in there.

    Now what do you think the odds are among 30 random guys that one or more of them might have ingested something that night that might bother your skin? Pretty fucking high stud. That said, what is the big deal? As soon as you showered and washed the piss off you were fine.

    If you want nice soft supple itch free skin go to The Body Shop and buy some moisturizer like the other girls. If you want to get pissed on, be a man and deal with a little bit of irritation.

    As to drinking piss: Nothing that involves bodily fluids is completely safe. Yet, drinking piss is certainly safer than taking a load, which many of us do. Sometimes I wish I could shout from the rooftops, "Wake up people!! There is no such thing as safe sex!! It's all a little dangerous!! That's part of what makes it fun!"

    It's up to everyone to evaluate what level of risk they are comfortable with. It's also been Bareback Michael's experience that once people start fantasying about a sexual practice they eventually do it. So why waste time? Find a dude who wants to piss in your mouth and learn to swallow.

    Your dick will thank you.


    Bareback Michael

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  • What is a BBBJ?

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    Some dude sent me an Instant Message the other day saying he wanted a BBBJ. What the fuck is that? I often see things like this and have no idea what people are talking about, but just play along like I understand. What does IMO mean? How about LOL? I want to get laid and don't want to seem like an idiot!

    Clueless in Seattle

    Answer:

    Dear Clueless,

    Do you want the short answer or the long answer? Since size matters I'll try to give you a "little" bit of both. A BBBJ is a bareback blow job. He wants you to suck his cock and he won't accept any latex bullshit. Go for it. IMO means In My Opinion. For example, IMO BBBJs taste a shitload better than latex! LOL means laughing out loud and is used to indicate you are joking. I could say, "You are a clueless motherfucker. LOL" and you would know I was just teasing. Here are a few other common abbreviations:

    IANAC : I Am Not A Crook
    ROTFL : Rolling On The Floor Laughing
    IASH : I Am So Horny
    IM : Instant Message
    PABG : Pack A Big Gun
    PIMP : Pee In My Pants

    You can get a full list of Internet Acronyms at http://www.gaarde.org/acronyms. They let you waste less time and get down more quickly to serious fucking!

    TTFN (Ta Ta For Now!)


    Bareback Michael

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  • What is PNP?

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I'm always seeing the term "pnp" and "411" and "420" just what do they mean. Hope my question isn't too lame or dumb.

    Thanks,

    pussyhole4u

    Answer:

    Dear PNP Clueless,

    I may not be the person for this question as I am not into PNP. However, I do play with those that do PNP. So, here goes:

    PNP = Party and Play that means that the person is into doing some drugs while they fuck. This can mean different things to different people. Some like to PNP with 420 (also referred to as weed, Mary Jane, nug, bud, or just plain and simple Marijuana). I think weed heightens the sex drive for some people and makes the sex more exciting. For me, it puts me to sleep.

    Some may like to play with T (Tina, Crystal Meth). In the bathhouses in NYC this seems to be the drug of choice. I have been to the West Side Club on more than one occasion and felt like I was the only one not on Crystal. That meant I had quite a few willing bottoms to plow. :)

    Perhaps the easiest to get of the PNP drugs is X or Extasy. This is a pill that "makes you feel good" so they say. When someone touches you it makes you feel all tingly inside.

    Of of the most potent drugs is GHB or G. This comes in liquid form and is often referred to as the rape drug.

    Some may like to PNP with cocain, poppers, K or any number of substances.

    In other words, when someone says they PNP, be sure you ask what they are into. It may mean different things for different folks.

    Best of luck!


    Bareback Michael

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  • What is Feltching?

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    What the hell is felching? I see this all over the place and have no idea what it is. I heard you know everything, so can you help?

    What The Feltch?

    Answer:

    Dear What The Feltch,

    Flattery will get you everywhere, darling! Thank you, stud! We've been working hard to make bareback.com the hottest, nastiest site it can be. We love to hear compliments just as much as we love to hear "Condom, what condom?"

    Today is your lucky day. Bareback Michael is not only a hot stud, he's also a linguist. Not a cunning linguist of course - that's my straight brother. Someday, we'll make him a Friend of Dorothy, but he's just not ready yet, the poor dear.

    Your question rocks my jock. Felching is a term that harkens back to those wonderful days in the 70s when we all wore polyester, got high and got our asses laid at Studio 54. During the whole safe sex and AIDS terror time of the 80s feltching took a back seat but is now coming back strong.

    The term feltching comes from the words "fart" and "belch". It's an ass burp. What some guys like to do is come in their boyfriend's ass, and then stick their nose in his chocolate tunnel. Then in one fucking perfect moment your boyfriend will literally fart his cum back into your mouth. It's fucking dirty, nasty and wonderful!

    If you want it make it even hotter, have your boyfriend go out and get barebacked by a stranger. Then let him felt the other dudes load onto your mouth.

    If that doesn't make you cum, you ain't fucking queer enough for Bareback Michael.

    Feltch on!


    Bareback Michael

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  • What is Bukkake?

    By: Michael

    Question:

    Dear Bareback Michael,

    I have heard of many things...but this bukkake is something I have never heard of. Of course I am always interested in learning new things. Can you help?

    Thanks,

    Stumped in Columbus

    Answer:

    Stumped in Columbus,

    Good question! All you other letter writers take notice. Bareback Michael can sometimes come off as a mean bitchy fag. I'm not really. I just get tired of people sending me in bullshit questions that any 14 year old can answer. I'm actually a pretty fucking nice bitchy fag when I get a legitimate question from someone who seems sane and isn't just trying to be a shock cock.

    Bukkake is something that 10 or 15 years ago was not really part of the mainstream. Yet in the past three to five years it has become the talk of the town. Why? Through the power of porn and mass media.

    This practice may be the only one initially popularized by straight people. Howard Stern, that King of All Media, got a hold of a bukkake tape a few years ago and started talking about it day after day on his radio show. This of course was in the days before the Bush Administration and Clear Channel's bizarre on air decency quest. But, I digress.

    What is bukkake? It's the act of having one person (in the straight world it's a girl, it our world it's a bottom) sit in the middle of a room while a bunch of guys jerk off onto his or her face and mouth. Oral sex is sometimes part of it but is not required. All that matters is that a whole bunch of studs coat the bitches mouth, face and hair with cum. It's up to the bitch whether he wants to jack off during the process.

    Its fun shit and may be the only sexual act other than blow jobs that both the straight and gay community can agree on.

    Why is it called bukkake? Bareback Michael does not know. Nor does he fucking care.


    Spray it, don't say it,

    Bareback Michael

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