So many times guys online talk a good game. Oh, yea man let's hookup. I wanna do x, y, and a with you. You're so hot. Blah, blah.
Then, they are not available, are married and have to be discreet, are headed to work, sick, too far away, yada, yada - fill in the blank. Or worse they agree to meet and don't show, or a half hour after the planned meeting time they message oh I got called in to work.
Oh and the real kicker is they show up or you get to their place and the photo they sent was taken 20 years ago or some such crap.
And the scammers are coming out of the woodwork on gay hookup sites.
It's all so frustrating.
How do you guys cope or deal with it and weed out the flakes?
