JamesTheBBJedi

My answer when a guy asks me “As a bottom, what is your favorite position when getting fucked?” My answer: “YES” I fucking live them all and truly cannot pick a favorite as they all bring something as equally awesome to the table. I love doggy style and they way the top grabs my waist/hips and drives his cock deeper and harder into me as he gets closer and closer to shooting his load. Fucking awesome! I also equally love being on my back with my legs over his shoulders or around his torso, watching the pleasure in his face as he thrusts in and out, his eyes rolling back when he cums inside me. Mmm mmm mmm. And being flat on my stomach, his full weight on top of me, holding my arms down essentially pinning me to the bed and controlling me while I feel the warmth of his cock and body using my hole for his enjoyment until he bursts. Wow! Or fuck, I absolutely love being strapped into a sling by the wrists and ankles, the pendulum motion of the sling adding to his - better than any frikin ride at Disneyland (unless I can get topped on Space Mountain then that may beat it, haha). Standing, bent forward at the waist, him standing behind me, hands holding my waist...whoa! And then riding a top while he’s on his back... See! Can’t fucking pick one since they all have very specific benefits.

100% bottom, 100% masculine - I am only attracted to masculine men as well. I am a career military man and in general someone who straight people would probably label as “straight acting” (whatever that means) I was raised by ultra conservative parents (ugh...unfortunately not very accepting of my lifestyle choices) father was also military in a long line of military family members (grandfather and so on). BUT I will say when I am intimate with a guy, i thoroughly enjoy letting myself go and relinquishing “control” to an extent. I like it when he’s firm, and strong but not overly aggressive and domineering - I am not what some would define as a Sub, just really focus on pleasing my top and ensuring he gets off. Another poster on this thread said it perfectly: “if I wanted to date a woman (somebody feminine) I would date a woman. So, bottom does not automatically mean feminine...I’m attracted to men who are also attracted to men.