what bemuses me about poz-seeking is the apparent search process. why do guys come to a sight like this to solicit a gift giver? i wonder how many posters are phantom souls merely expressing a fantasy, since most discussants are anonymous-guests. it is a powerful fantasy, after all; this site is certainly a good outlet for venting - which is a good thing. (yes, some are anonymous because they fear discovery by internet snoopers, but i don't think that cautionary practices account for a big chunk of postings.) why do so many respondents just happen to live on the other side of the country from the gift-giver? or another country altogether? e.g., "oh, I was just in london last week and would have made it with you had I known," and the poster is writing from pittsburgh! First of all, there are many bathhouses in london, and surely nobody can claim ignorance of that cavernous club piittsburgh! that verges on the comedic.
everyone knows the easiest and quickest way to convert is by spending a couple weekends in a bathhouse; private room, lights on, door open, legs spread or ass cocked. what is more, if one is remotely attractive, there will be a happily obliging queue during most of the visit. many of us find topping a bottom anonymously extremely arousing.