Rules

Please read, agree and answer a few questions at the end.  Then we will put you on the email list for an invite.

A bit about our group. We meet at noon during the week, usually on the first Wednesday of the month, at a private home near Clifton, VA, not far from Manassas. Your only cost is a donation for the play space. We never ask for a credit card or any other means of payment unless you have been absent without cause in which you may be asked to pay in advance. It is cash when you arrive at the party. We have a set of guidelines that we all agree to follow, since we are a small group and want everyone to be satisfied when they leave. If you wish to have someone else invited, please give them my email, have them contact me and I will send these guidelines for their approval. We will need your email address, if we don't already have it. We try to give three weeks' notice about an upcoming party, so that you can make the necessary arrangements to be out of the office or out of the house on the day of the party. Here are our guidelines that we ask you to read and agree to:

• Be very discreet, until you are in the house then just have lots of fun.

• Be safe, no pain, no blood, no marks, unless someone asks you to be a bit rough.

• Be sure you do not have an STD and are D&D free. Nobody wants to take anything home.

• No alcohol or smoking in the room. Go outside to smoke.

• Photography is generally not allowed, however on special occasions, I might take some pictures. I will have masks and hoods, and all pictures will be approved by those who are in them. There will not be any face pictures, unless you specifically ask for them. All pictures will be taken with my phone or camera and any that the subject does not want will be immediately deleted. Your pictures will be emailed to you in an encrypted email. So if you want some pictures of yourself, we can help out.

• Please remit room share money as soon as you enter and close the door. The room share is currently $30.

• Be yourself and be in the moment. Share your fantasies, they may come true. We expect you to play with others, but that does not mean you will or need to play with everyone or anyone who asks. No one is owed the attention of anyone else and that a participant's decision to say NO to someone or something should be accepted with grace. Some guys like to dress a bit which is fine if you do. Some guys like to see it, others don't really care and for some it is a turn off. If you have some toys that you would like to bring, that is fine also.

• Be clear what you want, be that oral or anal, some of us like it BB, if you want it covered, make sure your playmate knows. We encourage the use of condoms, but we are all mature adults, so it is entirely up to your judgement. Condoms and water based lube will be provided. I will have some special home made vegetable oil lube available, but I don't think it is condom safe. But it is fully digestible, and the guys like it.

• Be willing to share your email address as that is our method of communicating upcoming parties and directions on how to get there. I can not enter you into the spreadsheet without an email address. You will have my cell number. If you would like to give me a cell number that is fine but not required.

• Since we are a small group of about 18 guys, about ½ tops and ½ bottoms, if you RSVP that you are coming, no last day cancellations, except in dire health related emergencies. No Shows are scratched from the invite list, with very few exceptions, especially for first timers.

   

   

   

   

  Please answer the following questions and return them to me.

• Have you been tested for HIV? How and when was the last test?

• Do you consider yourself to be straight, gay, or bi?

• We like to have an even number of tops and bottoms. Do you consider yourself a top or a bottom and if you are versatile, which way do you lean. You may also be totally oral too. We just like to have a balanced group as we are just a small group.

• And, finally, where can we find out more information about you, such as one of the so-called dating sites.

Please reply with your acceptance of the guidelines and answer the few questions above.

Questions, just ask.