New HIV- bottom in LA wants to be cum dump but doesn't want HIV

[Guest labtmx]

And I don't want to have to ask the tops. Isn't there a morning after pill niw or?

[tnbiohazard]

There are two options for you, bud. There are pills you take afterwards, as well as before hand. The best option for you would probably be to use PreP. PreP, or Truvada, is a medication that can be prescribed for neg. people who might come in contact with poz people, esp. in the case of gay men having unprotected sex with other gay men, to prevent the neg. person from becoming poz. The medication is not with out it's negative side, though. It first off is an HIV Medication, which means it is a toxic medicine which can cause different side effects, including Liver problems. (see http://www.truvada.com/truvada-side-effects)Also Truvada is not a guarantee that you won't contract HIV, so they still suggest you use "Safe Sex" practices. What Truvada does is it tries to keep HIV from attaching to your cells, preventing it from replicating inside of you. This isn't 100% accurate, so there are potentials of you getting HIV, though extremely small. Be prepared to pay for the drug though. It cost my spouse, who is negative at this time, $1,300+, after the Truvada companies discount card paid $300. So you're looking at around $1600+ for the medication. You must take it all the time, so as to be prepared for any unexpected "Play". Doctors won't prescribe it, as far as I know, for "occasional" use. So you will be paying $1,600+ every month, from now until... Now your insurance may cover all, part or none of the medication. Fortunately my insurance will pay for my husbands medicines after we pay the max. out of pocket of $2,500. But some insurance companies may feel that since the drug is preventative measure, and since there's other preventative measures like abstinence, that they shouldn't have to pay for your "fun". The drugs you take afterwards are expensive also, though I don't know how expensive. They are taken for just a short time, but I don't know how hard it is to get such medicines. You would have to go to a doctor or hospital and admit that you possibly came in contact with HIV. What proof they or your insurance might want is unknown by me.

Here's another thought to think about though. In the US, there are lot's of help for those living with HIV. Having HIV isn't a death warrant like some think. Most people living with HIV and who are on medications are expected to have a normal live expectancy. Now does this mean I'm suggesting you should get HIV? NO. I'm not making any such suggestion. But you MUST consider the possibility that you might get pozzed. Why, especially if you can afford the drugs before, or after being in contact? Well those drugs are not guaranteed to prevent you from getting HIV. So even if you have access to the drugs, you should be prepared for the chance that you WILL get HIV. If you are not ready to take that chance, DON'T HAVE SEX. Don't take the caps as if I'm being mean. The caps only mean that if you want a 100% guarantee that you won't get HIV, you must not have sex with anyone who's even remotely poz. A guy may come to you and tell you that he's neg. and has proof from the form he picked up five minutes ago from the testing center, but even that test could be a false neg. or he might have even came in contact with HIV since he tested, which is usually a week before you get the results. So be ready to accept the fact that you might become poz. Do what you can afford to prevent it, but unless you are abstinent, you have a risk, gay, straight, bisexual, or other.