In my teens through about my mid-20s, I was very versatile--I mostly fucked and got sucked off, but I enjoyed having any kind of fun. Since my late 20s, I've been a versatile top--I enjoy doing lots more than total top--like 69, mutual j/o, double penetration, daisy chains,etc.--but I don't get fucked; the one exception is I do enjoy being in the middle of a sandwich (fucking while getting fucked). Even at group parties, there's never been a question; in fact, twice before I could get completely naked, someone started sucking my cock. Like I've said elsewhere, everyone I fuck must let me fuck them bareback and must let me cum deep inside them that first time or I cannot fuck them. Most guys I meet again, I fuck and almost always breed deep unless agreed differently ahead of time. When I do fuck, I absolutely refuse to pull out, even when they want to change their minds, until I breed them deep with one of my big loads; without exception, they were glad they took my cock & cum.