Age difference, what do you think?

[ozpozraw]

My 40 yr old no sex partner - due to a disability, has a 20 yr old friend who likes to ride ass bareback, fucks guys raw at local beat, talks about it and is very friendly towards me, hangs out at my place every day but not generally taking his gear off, never seen him with shirt off or anything like that, though i know he had a nice hairy chest!

As a friend should i offer him my ass, save him chasing it at the beat, he is almost 40 years younger than me and I'm sure he basically roots n leaves without chat, just wants to unload his balls into whomever is there. Probably needs to be taught how to fuck properly, as from what he talks about he has never been ridden and made to cum more than once! Basically 20 could go into 60 quite a few times! But i could also squeeze a few loads out of him each time and really drain his balls!

He's often around watching as i change from my work gear into shorts or will come to chat, lying on my bed as I'm naked in it, not too close though! 

I'm not sure what is holding me back, if he was at a sauna or beat, my cock and ass would be out waiting.....

It's nice that someone has the confidence and trust to talk freely about sex but would it be going too far to offer the use of my hole, maybe teach him how to unload multiple times.... or am i just a cum hungry old fart, lusting after a 20 year olds cumload!

[sddaddy420]

Go for it! If you are attracted to him and vice versa....give the young man a ride that he will never forget!!!

[ozpozraw]

Don't think attraction has anything to do with it for me! Suppose he is nice young n cute, hairy body, not too fit... i don't worry about the looks as long as they pound me raw and load my hole! 

[manfish770]

Well my regular Fuck Buddy is almost Nine Years Older than me, I don't mind at all, he still gives me his seed, he still feels wonderful inside me, even after he's come inside me.

Oh and he still looks good to me, still has a nice body to feel up and a nice set of balls that I can put booth inside my gob and swish my tongue around and around, Hmmm, nice and tasty.

[BigBart1992]

I don’t think age should ever be a barrier to sex.  If 2 people are attracted to each other and there is chemistry or “a connection”, why should it matter?  2 years ago I was seeing an older bloke who was 1 year older than twice my age and a year younger than my father – and I had never dated a bloke that much older than me before.  But it was an amazing experience: he was a great guy, hot body and loved to get fucked.  And I loved fucking him, even though at first it kept going around in my head that I could actually be fucking my own father.  That is another experience for another day but the sex was really intense.  But it also goes the other way.  I am usually attracted to blokes my own age or younger but I have had quite a few incredible experiences with some much younger lads.  I won’t say anymore on that unless you PM me - for obvious reasons but for me the feelings, control and sexual experience was incredible intense.  Age should never be a barrier, it is far too limiting.  Bart

[mixnzz]

age is no barrier to me...I love all cocks in me seeding my hole

[Guest barehole4use]

Age to me is totally irrelevant - what is important is that the guy fucking me can get & keep his cock hard.

[Guest subbttmhole]

My hottest top ever was 40 years older than me when I was 17. He would wear my tight boy hole out and then some. Taught me to take deep loads,,sometimes very roughly. Loved serving that guy.

[Guest barehole4use]

6 hours ago, subbttmhole said:

My hottest top ever was 40 years older than me when I was 17. He would wear my tight boy hole out and then some. Taught me to take deep loads,,sometimes very roughly. Loved serving that guy.

That sounds good, I had a top about 20 years ago & he was about 20 years older then me too but he had great stamina & always fucked me bare. It was so hot.

[captain]

Age is no difference I was 17 and my first top who schooled me was about 42 and wonderful he was He taught me everything and should me how to bottom

[Hairyslut]

I agree with everyone else here, age shouldn't matter. Go with the chemistry and attraction. I personally have always preferred older men, even as I get older I still love the older guys more and more. I'm always open to any age though and go with the feeling and attraction to that man. 

[hungrysubbuk]

I am definitely in the 'older man' category now - downright ancient in gay terms, as I hit 65 at the end of June.

I'm lucky, I guess, that folk don't believe that - even when unclothed in a sauna.

I have a younger way of looking at Life, and have a can do attitude - glass half full, rather than half empty.

I have met geriatric 20/30year olds, and also life enhancing older men. Age itself is what you make of it. Sexually I like a bit of meat and heft, so mostly not likely to go for men under 30 - but an enthusiastic proficient younger happy fucker is always welcome!!

[Hungbottom9]

Age doesn’t matter.  Chemistry between me and my fuck buddies is very important.  I’ve had a hot time with a older male couple in their 70s no lies, youngest 19.  
im 40

[Bbbttmslt49]

Call me picky or just set in my ways, but I prefer men who were older.  Been so since my first time.  he was 25 yrs older.  Mature men, tops that is, seem to know what to do and how to fuck.  They are also very enthusiastic especially when they are about cum and they never pull out!

[Guest barehole4use]

6 hours ago, Bbbttmslt49 said:

I prefer men who were older. 

It is true but hey have more experience at fucking too.

6 hours ago, Bbbttmslt49 said:

Mature men, tops that is, seem to know what to do and how to fuck.

They've been doing it longer so should know how to fuck when they are older, younger guys shoot there spunk much quicker because they get too excited which is fun too & don't forget they have to learn too.

6 hours ago, Bbbttmslt49 said:

they never pull out!

This is the best older guys never pull out, i love that too.

[Guest BreedDaddyDeep]

I would go for it!

I prefer younger guys 10 to 1, I have no idea why I just do. To have a young man as a friend and FWB would be awesome. What goes on behind doors is between the two, I would bottom for a young man as well as his friends.

A few years back I became friends with a younger str8 man and he was embarrassed to be seen hanging with such an older person. I on the other hand felt youthful, full of energy and as an equal with him. I can see the stigma though as it would be similar to chilling with ones grandfather.

Anymore I would hesitate to accept a young man as my partner even though I would love to. I feel to take a young man now would be a real burden for him becasue he would have to deal with all the ugly stuff when I pass. Although he would still be a good position to find another.  In my area age is a thing. I have a very hard time meeting guys due to my age for one, second becasue I'm not vers and strictly bottom.

[Guest barehole4use]

12 hours ago, BreedDaddyDeep said:

I would go for it!

You should do that, if you feel you can offer him stability & a loving home with a hot ass that he can fuck with friends anytime anywhere i would not hold back, life is too short for holding back, what you say about when your life is over & him having to deal with all the ugly stuff make his life then easier after you would pass this can mean many things but financial security would be a good place to start & a roof over his head & not that you leave him with problems & bill to pay, it takes 2 to make a life worth living together & any good relationship is about give & take, So i would not hold back, if you get the chance make it happen.

[Guest BreedDaddyDeep]

2 hours ago, barehole4use said:

You should do that, if you feel you can offer him stability & a loving home with a hot ass that he can fuck with friends anytime anywhere i would not hold back, life is too short for holding back, what you say about when your life is over & him having to deal with all the ugly stuff make his life then easier after you would pass this can mean many things but financial security would be a good place to start & a roof over his head & not that you leave him with problems & bill to pay, it takes 2 to make a life worth living together & any good relationship is about give & take, So i would not hold back, if you get the chance make it happen.

Sometimes it takes the view of another, and a different angle. I enjoy engaging in discussion with others, many times its a learning event.

[Guest Huffer69]

Ages !!! Mmmm !! Well I got my 1st fuck when I was 18 by my then 1st partner who was 28 which lasted for 3 years - just a mutual understanding & still friends - during my 20's I guess I always coupled up with guys similar in age - during my 30's whenever I went to the saunas or out cruising etc I always ended up getting fucked by older guys then me - during my 40's I'd take any man that wanted me - now in my 50's it's the same, I still get hit on by guys older than I but in my heart I still want the younger twinks to have me !! I guess now after all this c-19 horror comes to an end ( hopefully ) yes I still want to get  fucked silly but hot young tops but as I approach 60 I think deep down I'd quite like a top in his 50's to be my regular ( with occasional sexercises with twink tops to keep the fire going ) 

[Guest barehole4use]

4 hours ago, BreedDaddyDeep said:

many times its a learning event.

Life is about learning, when you're too old to learn you're dead.

[sergenudiste]

I only go with boys around 19-24 since years. All bareback. I would not even think about going with someone my age. 

[Hard8Stud]

Great motion-GIF! Reminds me once again why enjoy the sexual energy of younger men, especially 18-29!  When I first got message-retrieval in Megaphone (a metropolitan-specfic phone "dating" system, now Megamates for same-sex meetings) over Labor Day weekend (Sept. 1-4) 2007, I was so overwhelmed by responses and spent so much time retrieving messages that I only got to play twice instead of the planned 4 times (I still have the list to prove it). From then on, I always asked for 30 & under to call when I had message-retrieval and no older than 35 when I didn't.  I turned 52 almost two months later; but, I had kept up my physical & sexual health & endurance; 2 months later, a 28-year-old pulled me aside during a monthly all-male, group-sex party and wanted to know my secret was for having more stamina than he did. (That's the same party where I got to cum 4 times over the 2 days, the 1st & 3rd times being very hot; the 3rd time being when I knew I could fuck a fit, fully tanned 30-year-old for at least an hour nonstop, but someone started fondling my ass after half an hour, which soon made me cum deep inside him--I still remember the smile of satisfaction on his face when he turned up right after I pulled out.)  After playing off & on for about 7 hours at the party in mid-September, I fucked the main host for 45 minutes nonstop; sometime after starting, one of the part-time hosts (about age 29) lay down & watched for about 20 minutes before asking, "How do you do that?"; I slowed down but didn't stop fucking to answer him.  (I later shot my load in the main host 8½ hours after arriving; he insisted I stay, so I rested an hour before leaving.  At those parties, I usually connected with guys in their 20s & 30s. At the October party, I was one of the 7 who took turns fucking a tall, lean, very horny 20-year-old bottom in an impromptu gang-bang; because he was light, I held him still to keep him from being literally fucked around the bed while we pounded him hard, sometimes feeding him my cock at the same time. By the 3rd time around, we all got overheated from fucking him so hard.  Over the 4 hours I was there, I connected off & on with a lean guy in his mid-20s from southern Oklahoma; when the tranquilizer he'd taken to keep him from cumming to soon wore off, he & I had a very hot 69; when I knew we about to cum, I fully deep-throated his cock, making him cum hard and lose control; having some seasonal allergies, I went to the restroom to spit mostly drainage since I'd swallowed his load; when I returned, he was still totally dazed with his naturally smooth chest completely wet from my cum.

Most of the guys I met through Megaphone (especially before the Recession) have been considerably younger, including a 30-year-old (when I was 53) who shot his load hands-free while I fucked him after 2 hours of play; after a brief period of recovery, he begged me to fuck him again; we ended by fucking half an hour outdoors over the hood of my car while watching ourselves in the house's window's reflection.  A tight-built 33-year-old didn't have time for extended play; so, I fucked him a lot harder than he thought possible from anyone, much less someone 20 years older; after I unloaded in him, he asked "May I cum, sir?"; I said "yes," and he jacked off while my cock was still in him.

After connecting through Megaphone, I talked with a young man who created a "box" shortly after turning 18; he was able to go stay with someone for over a month right after Christmas; for whatever reason, the financial opportunity didn't work out, so we chatted another month or so.  By the time we met, he'd already made clear he was a versatile top like me; but, we really wanted to meet. I picked him up and went to the house of his grandmother where the electricity had been turned off.  We had a good time, mostly mutual cockstroking, mutual cocksucking, & 69; I was on top of a 69 when I shot a much bigger load on his chest than he expected, almost complaining because of it running off onto the floor.  (Ever since then, I've made a point of letting anyone I play with know I'm about to cum and to inform them beforehand that I usually cum a lot more than average but have no way of knowing for sure how much.)  Unfortunately, like with so many others, we tried several times to meet again but never could manage it.

In late 1996-2001, I worked at an Iranian-immigrant-family-owned convenience store in Denton, which was also the base for the city's taxi service.  After the middle of 5 sons who hired me died suddenly in March 1996 and the father died several months later, I began wearing tank tops at work all year round except on the coldest of winter days; partly partly because of the drive-thru window and the grill where their ever-popular hamburger combo were cooked, it got very warm inside in summer, so I would wear only very-deep-cut tank tops--because of my usually tight body, great leg-muscle definition, and full-body tan, I looked great.  In Nov. 1999, I was in very good shape for 46 and had already had teenagers comment on the sheen my healthy skin had when sunlit but which theirs had already lost; I rode my bicycle shirtless the 3 miles back to my apartment building and was about to carry my bike up those 15 steps when I was surprised & confused to hear a familiar voice call from the parking lot--it was the 17-year-old whom I thought I'd left on the other side of town; as member of the high-school track team, he had rather easily run behind me, carrying his T-shirt, the whole way.  I had already figured out that he and his middle half-brother were unusually horny; beside my obvious fitness and having long explained that I did indeed shave my chest, the younger brother had somehow seen my big cock and told his older brother who had asked me a couple questions that I answered as factually & broadly as I could.  A few minutes after entering my apartment, I thought he'd only gone to see my bedroom when he called me--and I saw that his cock was already 7" long topside (my first thought was, "Wow, he already has a man's cock!"  He later told me that some of the women he was fucking were married to men who couldn't satisfy them with their average or smaller cocks.)  Like me, he preferred remaining nude and enjoyed lots of sex.  That first night, he shot 3 loads, staying hard the whole time, although the subsequent loads weren't nearly as much, while I shot one good load.  I don't remember much about the 2nd time a couple nights later except that he shot 3 more loads.  (He rarely left after shooting "only" 2 loads and never after only 1.)  Two nights later, we left all the lights on; after demonstrating what good cocksucking really is, he eventually came 5 times, and he made me cum twice--a very rare time for me when my 2nd load was bigger than my first because he grabbed camera someone had left in a cab and photographed me (unfortunately, never managed to mail the roll to a specialized photo lab to get developed, or I would have made digital copies years ago).  He often had questions about sex that I would answer; I made him enjoy sex even more by showing him that sexual enjoyment involves the whole body and especially the peripheral sexual area, not just the genitals.  After seeing how good my big, shaved cock looks & feels, he started trimming; a year after we met, he asked me to use my shaver on him--a few months later, he realized the benefits and began shaving his cock regularly.  More often than not, he showed up at my apartment having not brought a shirt when walking or biking to my place; even in midday, I would remain totally nude when letting him in; and, I always knew why he was there.  He once brought a girlfriend for me to share with him; she never minded our nudity but wasn't willing to fuck in the place of a total stranger, so they just spent the night with me in my bed.  After 3½ years, he was still in excellent shape and horny as ever; when I told him I was going to have to move at the first of June 2003, he made a point of visiting more often than he had been for several months.

I have other examples, but they've been generally a lot more spread out than I have wanted.  But, it's sufficient to say that guys who meet me before they know my age never care what my age is.

In June 2020, I had left the door to the "patio" and to my current small apartment open to let the wind from a thunderstorm cool my apartment off quickly & naturally; but, because of the rain itself, the "patio" door wasn't open quite enough, so I left the door open longer to help the cooling off.  (My apartment is beyond & under an outdoor stairwell, so it's actually quite out of the way and so is farther from weather.)  Suddenly, a rain-soaked hispanic man about age 24 came in seeking shelter because he thought we were about to have a tornado; the storm eventually let up, and I learned that he had lived in the same complex in his late teens & early 20s, had worked nearby as a team leader, had been laid off recently because of the pandemic-related shutdowns, and had been homeless since losing his apartment 2 or 3 weeks before because of losing his job.  He took a shower and asked if I had anything for him to wear. Wearing only shorts as usual after work, I told him I did not; when he asked to spend the night while his clothes dried out, I told him I always sleep nude to which he said he always did, too. He passed out on my bed, but slept on the floor when I went to bed; I had to wake him up before I left because he hadn't slept indoors in about a month.  He never saw me wear a shirt of any kind until winter approached.  He reappeared over a few a couple weeks later, then I didn't see him for almost 2 months.  He became very comfortable around me; I don't remember exactly how much we had shared about each other, but I'll never forget when he was sitting on the other side of my bed, turned, and quietly asked, "Do you want to fuck me?" I told him, "Yes.  In fact, I've wanted to since the night we met."  Despite not eating right consistently, he gradually toned up and would check out his improvements in my bathroom mirror.  He would borrow my nonsmart flip phone (the best I can afford now) and go in my restroom to watch his fetish porn; I later learned why he had certain paranoias about being seen, but I soon learned that most of his prior sexual experiences had been with females his age and didn't want anyone else to know about his bisexuality.  But, every time he showed up, he was less & less inhibited with and around me, especially during the day when no-one can see in because of the dark, reflective "patio" window.  I had stopped throwing anything on to let him in, and he would usually strip immediately; he once commented that he was surprised that he didn't mind at all remaining nude for hours on end in someone else's home, namely mine.  I found that his fit nudity markedly improved my apartment's ambience.  He got to where he'd either grab my crotch upon arrival or immediately want to strip off my low-rise work jeans so that he could suck my cock.  He's actually a very good cocksucker; so, he had to have had some other experience with guys.  Until late January, he never showed up after midnight and not too often.  I have never enjoyed having anyone else sleep with me in my bed than him, partly because of the freedom to enjoy nudism as much as I do, partly because he was so relaxed when enjoying the physical closeness, partly because he's the only one I didn't mind at all rolling over me while we slept, partly because he craved being able to open up so I could fuck him (did once with lots of lube while I was on my back; but, he refused to use any lube one afternoon later when I really wanted to fuck him--to which he humorously demonstrated visually how thick I am and how tight he is); but, he also proved to be smarter and more observant than most people even close to his age.  It was about then that he commented, "How can an old guy like you have such a big cock?"  (If not for the extreme stresses of my parents' deaths a year apart, having to suddenly move including all their stuff, and everything being turned upside down when their automobile accident happened 7/31/2019, I would have easily maintained enough stamina to have already fucked him several times.) After not seeing him for a few weeks, he returned in mid-January; I didn't realize for awhile that he had recently been introduced to an addictive drug. He started showing up in the middle of the night and staying up too late for me to get enough sleep before work. When the record-cold winter storm hit in February, I was not about to tell him to leave; but, even then, he "had" to sometimes find a fix even when the temperature was -2°F. After the storm, he quickly got worse, and I couldn't get him to sleep, which left me more & more worn out.  He's the only person I've ever told I genuinely wanted to have as a roommate; but, he would need to get clean & find a new job while I get another job so that we could share expenses in a place big enough for two adults--knowing him & myself well enough, we would need our own rooms but would almost always sleep nude together.  (My own budget is currently tight, so I cannot support anyone else as well.)  By March, he increasingly woke me up just to watch more porn on my computer while getting high.  Despite his potential, intellect, great sense of humor, and having so much in common, he was by then disrupting my life too much; not knowing when he'd show up, I sometimes dreamed that he knocked on my door--the times I could check, no-one was there.

Around midnight, March 20 into March 21, we had a lot sexual fun for about 45 minutes, mostly from him sucking my cock; I could've fucked him deep & for a long time a little after 1 a.m., but he refused lube and I couldn't get him to relax enough, so he decided he couldn't (yet) take my cock after 15 minutes.  He showed up the evening of March 23, and we played off & on for 2 hours, but it wasn't much fun because he'd suck my cock, get high & let me rest, suck my cock some more, and get high again; he jacked off to online porn, which I don't mind at all in & of itself; after doing what I expected to do hours earlier, I didn't eat dinner till 1 a.m.  March 25, I overslept; but he showed up to get high & watch porn while he knew I needed to get ready for work.  On Sunday, March 28, I got delayed just enough that he knocked on my door just as I needed to leave; I tried to pretend I was already gone, but he wouldn't leave; finally, I bolted out, kept him from entering, and barely managed to catch the train in time not to be late to work.  Flustered and needing to rush off, I said too briefly not what I meant to say.  I'm almost certain he knocked on my door late some of the next several nights; but, I was too exhausted to find out for sure.  I wish I had had time to write a note before getting my first Pfizer vaccine shot on May 5:  By the time I returned, I was already getting fatigued; by 11:00pm, I was under the bedcovers, including a blanket, with a fever that probably peaked at 103°F; I slept most of 11:30-12:30, waking up to feel like someone had hit my left shoulder with a hammer.  I think I heard distinctive knocking on my door around midnight; but, I was too out of it to get up & check until 3 a.m. when I turned off my computer and lights.  I'm almost certain it was him.  If he showed up 3 weeks later, I don't know because I was able that time to take extra days off for sleeping off the fatigue.  So, if anyone has read my posts about him elsewhere, that sort of explains how much we enjoyed each others' company, personally and sexually, and why I haven't seen him in 3 months.

Americans seem to be more age-difference conscious than people in the rest of the world.  That's why younger & younger managers are promoted (to save corporate money because of their lack of experience) who in turn prefer only those their age & younger to be in the same work environment.  I and some others in my current retail environment have managed to turn that approach on its head when those of us 40 & up, who were raised to actually apply ourselves to the work we're getting paid to do, have all but run circles around those who should have more energy to do so.  A 10-year co-worker in her early 50s knows I'm older; but, a 3½-year co-worker about 23 has no idea I'm nearly 3 times his age, largely because I've approached my overall health with a long-term outlook; the result is my skin is still better than that of most men half my age, and I was in the best physical shape of my life only 4 years ago.  In that vein, I've seen in Squirt that several men in their 50s who are very much out of shape have a much easier time of finding twinks to fuck in the U.K. that I and others have had here in the U.S.  But, after observing over the past several years and my past 13 months' personal experience, I think there is at long last hope for us now-older men who still much prefer the sexual company & energy of men aged 18-30 who are finally less conditioned than they used to be believe that over 30 is "past it."  I've always enjoyed shattering age-related preconceptions of physical & sexual ability; but, meeting this guy last year when he was about 24 and I was a far-more-fit-than-average 64 really gives me hope.  If he and I can reconnect, I'll definitely post an update.  (I took a few poorly lit pics of him; but, I dropped & damaged that phone the day my dad died on Feb. 20. I need to get that phone repaired to retrieve those pics and many others.)

[Guest barehole4use]

I prefer normal next door guy over boring buff gym goer any day who is obsessed with the mirror & not what & who is in front of him.

[Hard8Stud]

On 5/9/2021 at 8:41 PM, sergenudiste said:

I only go with boys around 19-24 since years. All bareback. I would not even think about going with someone my age. 

First of all, I absolutely love this motion-GIF!

Whenever I had message-retrieval in Megaphone, I had say in my public message that I was only looking for no older than 30.  The first time I got message-retrieval was to start a 4-day weekend in Sept. 2007; but, I got so slammed with calls that I spent most of my time retrieving the calls. I eventually met 2 guys, but I had planned to meet 4--one each day.  After meeting a man in his late 40s who invited me over but did nothing but watch season premeres on TV until it was too late to play, I made a point of being more adamant about that limit.  By then, I'd talked with or almost met too many older guys (younger than me) who had let themselves get out of shape and had let the stresses of life get in the way of their libidos.  But, as with almost everything else, there are exceptions to every rule. (As a versatile top, I generally have the most fun with versatile bottoms and very vers guys but also sometimes other vers tops.)  So, I'm also willing to meet guys over 30 who are more fit and who have maintained themselves physically & sexually. One well-hung guy only a few years younger than me was an avid swimmer and former swim coach; we sometimes exchanged messages but never managed to meet.  I met some at the monthly group parties who were definitely a lot of fun, including the main host.  If I had the time and means (both financial & transportational) and after the unforgettable fun I had recently over almost 2 years with a hispanic twink, I know I would still set an upper limit of 29 for first-time meets (with exceptions, of course, for older guys like me who are usually as horny as ever).  I not only thoroughly enjoy sharing lots of fun with twinks who are naturally as horny as I am; but, I also enjoy sharing my experience with them and showing them more of how to really enjoy sex instead of it being over in just minutes. (It also helps when anyone enjoys playing for more than an hour can take being fucked as long as I can fuck.)

[Guest barehole4use]

Age is so just a number, i like all ages been fucked by all ages too legal only.