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Posted 18 May 2008 - 04:36 PM

So what do other bottoms do to maximize their bathhouse chances. I've wandered around the baths with minimal success. But some have suggested the best course of action for a bottom is to simply dim the lights of the room, leave the door open and lie face down and signalling to let the tops come to them.

This a successful approach?

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Posted 19 May 2008 - 10:40 PM

QUOTE(werewolf @ May 18 2008, 09:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So what do other bottoms do to maximize their bathhouse chances. I've wandered around the baths with minimal success. But some have suggested the best course of action for a bottom is to simply dim the lights of the room, leave the door open and lie face down and signalling to let the tops come to them.

This a successful approach?

Always worked for me. Used to be a regular at the O Street Bathes and after I showered and got ready I would lay down with my poppers in one hand and wait for the fun to begin. Never turned down a cock whether it was big or small and always thanked them when they were done. smile.gif

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Posted 24 May 2008 - 03:31 AM

I'd like to hear from Tops. Tell us what gets their interest in that situation.


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So what do other bottoms do to maximize their bathhouse chances. I've wandered around the baths with minimal success. But some have suggested the best course of action for a bottom is to simply dim the lights of the room, leave the door open and lie face down and signalling to let the tops come to them.

This a successful approach?



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Posted 31 May 2008 - 03:39 PM

Best way to increase your chances of getting fucked at a bath house is to go to the gym, eat right, take care of your body/hygiene and the men will follow.

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Posted 02 June 2008 - 03:47 PM

Yeah, if I'm in a topping mood, a guy lying naked with his arse in the air can be inviting, but not if he's overweight, or has a condom on the mattress! ohmy.gif

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Posted 25 June 2008 - 09:09 AM

Being a bottom,,,,,I usually just walk around naked, and always let others see my ass. And when passing others in the halls, let them rub against me. If I see a guy in a room, stroking his dick, I will usually start to caress my ass for him to see. Maybe even finger it,,,,,,,then if he is interested he will motion me to join him. There are many different ways to get noticed if you're a bottom. biggrin.gif

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Posted 29 June 2008 - 11:03 AM

i'm sure i speak for everyone when i say that we all have different ways and means of getting what they want rolleyes.gif. from a personal point of view,if i see someone lying on their front,i will lie next to them,or sit next to them,stroking my cock as i finger their hole.if they're up for it,i will then get them to take a hit from my bottle of poppers(if they want to,of course)and tell them that it will relax their ass muscles enough for me to go all the way to the hilt tongue.gif .then,i will go for it until i shoot up their ass. this reminds me of a time when a guy would only let me fuck him with a condom angry.gif but i had the last laugh by pulling out,whipping off the condom biggrin.gif and filling him with first my cock and very quickly my cum wink.gif .

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Posted 30 June 2008 - 11:39 PM

As another poster suggested, you have to offer more than an ass. Take good care of your body, mind and soul and a hot top will take good care of you.

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Posted 22 August 2008 - 05:15 PM

QUOTE(caleb1977x @ May 31 2008, 08:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Best way to increase your chances of getting fucked at a bath house is to go to the gym, eat right, take care of your body/hygiene and the men will follow.

Hey Caleb - I'm wondering if you were in Dorset in 1977 - I knew a Caleb then - it you are him, please get in touch - I can't open your address for some reason!



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Posted 23 August 2008 - 07:33 AM

"So what do other bottoms do to maximize their bathhouse chances?"


If you look in my profile you will see a picture of me wearing a black T-shirt that says "Cream my Hole"

If you are a bottom, go to the gym, and clean your hole well.

When I go to the sauna, a few options:

1) stay in my room wearing this T-shirt, facing the door (sometimes wearing a black leather Hood). Lots of guys are curious about it. I get a lot of action wearing this T-shirt, because let's face it, the idea of creaming a hole is hot. Also, no need to negotiate safe sex, etc.

2) Most saunas have a dark area with gloryholes, slings, etc. For sucking, I bring a stool and plant myself in a well located Gloryhole and suck lots of cock. And I also get fucked anonymously, which I like.

3) I go to the dry sauna or wet sauna and sometimes find actiuon there. Or enter a room with the door open. When this happens, I like to have my hole already lubed and that sometimes guys find that hot and end up fucking me.



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Posted 27 August 2008 - 05:05 PM

i find the best way is just climb into the sling or onto the fuckbench and wait for guys to cum slide their cocks into my lubed hole.usually i get a good crowd watching and several guys at a time tag teaming my pussy

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 10:05 PM

When I am at a bath house, I always wear a jock strap. If I am walking around, sometimes, I just walk around with nothing more than the jock strap (no towel). Other times, I just wear the jock strap below my towel (with the towel hanging low, allowing the strap of the jock to show, along with the crack of my ass). If I am in my room, I always lie face down (also wearing a jock strap). I try to lie in a provocative position... my ass up in the air or my legs flexed in a way that will turn guys on.

And being realistic... Sometimes, no matter how hot you look, lying down on your matress, guys just don't have the courage to walk in and fuck you. And other times, you have more tops wanting to fuck you than you can possibly handle (that, of course, is the best situation!). I love it when multiple tops line up outside my door and take turns fucking me and filling me with their cum. I love offering my hole up to masculine men and taking their seed deep inside me.

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Posted 02 June 2009 - 07:21 PM

first of all, i never wear a towel. i go naked or in a jockstrap or in a tank top, maybe even a half shirt. i make sure my ass is being displayed. i look for men who make a point to let their dicks hang out because those are most likely tops. i do sometimes lay face down with my legs open as wide as possible and a pillow under my hips to push my ass up. I also lay on my back with my legs open and finger my hole and try to position it so it's visible.

Also, our bathhouses have chalkboards that you can write on...usually around the bathroom walls. i write my room # and then something like "*Y(*YO*HOH room" or "powerfuck my ass and throat".

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Posted 06 November 2009 - 10:54 PM

Any time I find a good top guy in an open area who will lay back while I suck his cock, I get on my hands and knees with my ass pushed high in the air, It's never long before someone comes along and starts using my ass. Once one guy starts fucking the guys gather around fast enough to watch and join in.

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Posted 20 January 2010 - 11:57 PM

QUOTE(dare2bare @ Jun 29 2008, 04:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i'm sure i speak for everyone when i say that we all have different ways and means of getting what they want rolleyes.gif. from a personal point of view,if i see someone lying on their front,i will lie next to them,or sit next to them,stroking my cock as i finger their hole.if they're up for it,i will then get them to take a hit from my bottle of poppers(if they want to,of course)and tell them that it will relax their ass muscles enough for me to go all the way to the hilt tongue.gif .then,i will go for it until i shoot up their ass. this reminds me of a time when a guy would only let me fuck him with a condom angry.gif but i had the last laugh by pulling out,whipping off the condom biggrin.gif and filling him with first my cock and very quickly my cum wink.gif .


You should be arrested for even posting this bullshit. You have no right to dump your cum in someone's ass who insisted on a condom. This is nothing short of attempted murder if you're POZ. Just because you have no value for your life doesn't mean someone else doesn't. What a miserable fuck who deserves to rot in hell.

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Posted 29 March 2010 - 12:29 PM

Some good suggestions here. I have found first and foremost be in decent shape and clean you ass out. Don't appear desperate either. The chalkboard is usually a good place to start. I too walk around with a jock only as I am a bottom and only want to advertise my ass-ets. I have also found that hooking up is alot like dancing. No one wants to be the first one on the floor but once you get one they all tend to let their guards down and join in. Using this I almost always go someplace with a partner to be my first fuck and have them fuck me in the most populated area of the place we go whether it be a bar, backroom, theatre or bath. I do this because I am a truly energetic and vocal fuck. Once I have a cock in me, one only has to be nearby to hear how much I love it and want more and they also can see how I take it too. It never fails to have me taking cock and driving back begging for more and being the truly active bottom slut I am to entice others to want to experience the same from me. I LOVE to be fucked and everyone will know that by the time I get my first load.

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Posted 14 June 2010 - 05:24 PM

QUOTE(buns4cum @ Mar 29 2010, 05:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Some good suggestions here. I have found first and foremost be in decent shape and clean you ass out. Don't appear desperate either. The chalkboard is usually a good place to start. I too walk around with a jock only as I am a bottom and only want to advertise my ass-ets. I have also found that hooking up is alot like dancing. No one wants to be the first one on the floor but once you get one they all tend to let their guards down and join in. Using this I almost always go someplace with a partner to be my first fuck and have them fuck me in the most populated area of the place we go whether it be a bar, backroom, theatre or bath. I do this because I am a truly energetic and vocal fuck. Once I have a cock in me, one only has to be nearby to hear how much I love it and want more and they also can see how I take it too. It never fails to have me taking cock and driving back begging for more and being the truly active bottom slut I am to entice others to want to experience the same from me. I LOVE to be fucked and everyone will know that by the time I get my first load.

I've always found that getting in the sling and letting the chains jingle will get the tops' attention...never had a problem getting cock that way!

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Posted 19 March 2011 - 04:31 AM

So what do other bottoms do to maximize their bathhouse chances. I've wandered around the baths with minimal success. But some have suggested the best course of action for a bottom is to simply dim the lights of the room, leave the door open and lie face down and signalling to let the tops come to them.

This a successful approach?


i dont know how good your bath house does but for me being a bareback bottom is to make sure guys see your ass a lot like if the room is not the only place you can fuck naked because one bath house i go to in denver if i am laying on my back legs spread in the porn tv room or in the sling or any where else my bare ass can be seen by all guys ill get fucked like no tomorrow try that next time your at your gay bath house and i hope you will please let me know how it goes ok id want to hear how it went

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Posted 16 September 2013 - 12:25 AM

It all depends on the tops at the bath house.  I see so many posts on here about being kept well in shape, but I've seen many tops who only like bigger bottoms.  In fact one gay couple I know are both tops, and the one likes thin boys, but the other calls them MONSTERS.  The second gets upset when he sees a larger guy, then months later the guy has lost a lot of weight. 

 

So, it ALL depends on the tops there.  I've seen some heavy bottoms who have gotten lot's of action, and some thin, decent shaped guys who have gotten none.  But the laying in the dark, with the lights low, face down can help increase your chances.  I've seen well toned guys, who have looked like models, look into a room that had a larger guy in there face down, then look down the hall to see if anyone was watching, only to quickly go in, and close the door behind them, so no one could see.  What a shame.  Vanity Kills, as ABC use to say.



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Posted 04 March 2014 - 03:29 AM

I where a jock strap that say fuck toy on the waist band. I lay on the bed, in the sauna, and get in the sling.




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